tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837396366336936707.post7367170658204243685..comments2019-12-28T19:12:18.818-06:00Comments on tlitha qum: Stephen's Story (Part 4)Sara Fleminghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17448877274699623623noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837396366336936707.post-78768157651111638632011-05-21T18:17:30.925-05:002011-05-21T18:17:30.925-05:00It's been a loooong time since I read your blo...It's been a loooong time since I read your blog. A long time since I've been able to write,too. First, congrats on your baby boy, despite all the obstacles and difficult decisions, you are one AMAZING moma !! God has a mighty big plan on his life as well as yours. He is already being shapped into a wonderful little boy ! :-) I had a little girl named Airlie on February 16th with an emergency c-section, as well. I do wish they would just all do dissolvable stitches or something easier, I had stapples too. Such a pain. And got a rash and then an infection on top of that. Our battle scars, right ? We are certainly going to adopt next time, too. I felt awful for not being able to breast feed but now it's not so bad. I'm so sorry it's been such a rough road for y'all ! Will be keeping you and you're family in our prayers. He's absolutely precious !Karahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03857444598867427396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837396366336936707.post-53568082396197683672011-03-04T12:48:25.040-06:002011-03-04T12:48:25.040-06:00I love your blog, but I can't follow it becaus...I love your blog, but I can't follow it because your network blog link isn't working. <br /><br />Thank you for the link from the moms group on Facebook.KC Christian Doulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13816757005981756431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837396366336936707.post-10238489101602809292011-03-03T21:58:51.347-06:002011-03-03T21:58:51.347-06:00I was not sure exactly what had happened from all ...I was not sure exactly what had happened from all of Stephen's issues. I knew he had some stomach stuff but never had a chance to get in touch with you and find out more. I am so glad he is doing better. I was unable to breast feed as well, but I figure that God had someone to prevent formula for Moms like us that can't. We need to get together soon. Life is hard between work, baby, and keeping everything in life caught up. However, spring break and summer are fast approaching. Hope to see you soon.Heather Gasper Rhodesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837396366336936707.post-69667579657308939592011-03-03T09:20:19.966-06:002011-03-03T09:20:19.966-06:00I heard about your family through a prayer chain o...I heard about your family through a prayer chain on Faceplant. :) I wanted to tell you that I am a mom of 3 girls, 11, 8 and 20 months. My 8 year old was born 4lb 11oz, full term. I couldn't breastfeed for the same reasons as you. her mouth was too small, my breasts were too big and she had severe GERD that was keeping her from being able to eat or thrive. At 2 months, they said they NEEDED to do emergency surgery. The second opinion said it could wait. She never had the surgery, but had issues (vomiting, pneumonia, low weight, daily meds for 6 years) for a long time. She will be 8 this month and has been off her meds for a year and her last endoscopy was clear and healthy. We just got her sports physical done and she's cleared to play. She also has a migraine condition that has begun to fade with time. My point in telling you is this: My experience as a mother has been anything but easy... for more reasons than just this... and it looks as though you've been through your trials as a mother, too. I applaud you for making the decisions you feel best for your baby and your faith in God to guide and support you through this. But I also want you to know, from someone who read your story like a memory, that this too, shall pass... and your son CAN and WILL heal and live a full, happy life. :) Keep your faith strong and when the hard parts threaten to steal your joy, look at your baby boy and take it right back.So Worth It.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04194599729235976058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837396366336936707.post-67497596351602108882011-02-12T10:35:53.733-06:002011-02-12T10:35:53.733-06:00Sara, You don't know me but I am Aprilles mom....Sara, You don't know me but I am Aprilles mom. I remember praying for you when Stephen was born. But I had no idea of the struggles you and he have had since. I just read you Stephens story and your reasons for leaving facebook. If you were here I would just give you a hug and try to let you know that I care. You sound like an awesome mom. Never feel guilty for feeling what you feel or taking a stand for what is right for your child. Keep up the good work. I will be praying for you. <br />JeannieJeanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03320032469655416788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837396366336936707.post-50313487193094195092011-01-20T16:35:35.674-06:002011-01-20T16:35:35.674-06:00You are a wonderful person Sara and a wonderful ma...You are a wonderful person Sara and a wonderful mama. Thanks for sharing your story and everything you guys have gone through. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02806362170244764347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837396366336936707.post-11303217680162197412011-01-20T15:56:05.244-06:002011-01-20T15:56:05.244-06:00I have to admit, when I got to the quote about not...I have to admit, when I got to the quote about not going to hell for not breastfeeding, I laughed out loud. It felt good to hear someone else say it also. :) I love how strong and determined you are. I understand how you feel about having more children. The pain and complications I went through with the pregnancy and the complications during the delivery with Monster have me not wanting more children either. You are a good Mommy and Stephen is blessed to have you... And I'm blessed to have you as a friend! :)StephieDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11932641872893279437noreply@blogger.com